Frustrated....

So they moved us out of the PICU around 6:45p.m. Friday to 4 Southerland. It actually felt like we were being kicked out and rushed. I mean these kids go through major open heart surgery and are pushed so hard to come back to normal at a very fast pace. They tell you that once you move onto this floor they immediately start getting you ready to go home the only problem is, is that Maccoy who weighed 8.6kilos on Wed. before surgery now weighs 9.1kilos and hasn't been eating without vomiting it back up so what I am saying is he is FULL of fluid and poop.. I have asked,pleaded,cried,demanded that somebody do something to help him. His belly button is pooped out he is so full. I can't even hold him to nurse I must hang over his crib because he is so rigid/full he HATES to be held :( I know we are barely 3 days out from surgery but I did expect a little more concern for my babies discomfort? I did demand they give him a suppository so they just did that around 4:30a.m. and I made them call the Resident Dr. on call and send them in which they did and I told her that this is ridiculous and they have to help him! I am trying not to be rude but with sleep deprivation and pure worry its not working well.. So we are frustrated, but hoping to get somewhere soon.